Eid Support: New Muslims' Holiday Challenges

Eid and Loneliness: Supporting New Muslims During Holidays
The Eid celebration is one of the most joyous times in the Muslim world, filled with family gatherings, communal prayers, abundant feasts, and moments of joy. Yet, for those who have recently embraced Islam, this period can bring deep loneliness and challenges. The absence of family and old friends, along with the challenges of embracing a new identity, often leave them feeling out of place in this festive joy.
The Joys and Challenges of a New Beginning
Adopting Islam for many is a spiritual renewal, the start of a journey that provides inner peace and purpose. However, this is often accompanied by fear and uncertainty — especially as the first major religious holiday approaches.
A recent Muslim who has just returned to Islam explained: "This is my first Eid, and I don't really know what to do. My friends invited me for lunch, but I still don't quite feel like I belong. I've seen others celebrate with their families before, but I have no one. It will be sad, but I know Allah is with me."
Another believer grappling with similar feelings, who recently began practicing Islam, shared: "During the fast, I felt a peace I had never known. But now, as Eid approaches, I am increasingly sad. My family is unaware of my decision, and I fear they may not accept it."
The Role of the Community: How Can We Help?
Religious leaders stress that supporting new Muslims is crucial, especially during the holidays.
An imam explained: "New converts often feel lonely during Eid because they don't have a Muslim family or close community with whom to celebrate. Traditionally, Eid is a time for family gathering, but without someone who understands them, they can easily feel vulnerable."
So, how can we help?
Inviting them to Eid prayers and meals – A simple gesture, like a meal invitation, can have a tremendous impact. New Muslims can feel they are part of the community in this way.
Gifting and Attention – Eid is traditionally a celebration of gifts as well. A small token of attention, whether a sweet or a kind word, can mean a lot.
Organizing Community Programs – Several mosques and Islamic centers organize special programs for new Muslims. Participation in these can help them build connections.
Continuous Support – After Eid, it’s important not to leave them alone. A message, a phone call, or a meeting can strengthen their faith.
Dubai's Example: Togetherness in Practice
In the UAE, many believers are already paying special attention to new Muslims. A long-time Muslim resident shared: "I knew a colleague had recently embraced Islam, so I invited him to our family Eid dinner. It's our duty to ensure no one feels alone."
This attitude is essential not only during Eid, but in everyday life too. According to Islamic teachings, the Muslim community operates as one body — if one part hurts, the whole body suffers. Welcoming new brothers and sisters is not just a good gesture but an obligation.
Closing Thoughts
Eid is not only about celebration, but also about togetherness. Those who have recently entered the gate of Islam embark on a journey filled with courage and testimony, yet also vulnerability. A warm word, a communal prayer, or an invitation to the table can help them feel truly at home.